To the one that holds his heart,

This may sound cliche, but if you hurt him, I will stalk you and legit. kick. your. ass! Now I'm pretty sure you have unwillingly heard of me, but let me, let you in on a little secret- I know all about you. I have my ways, don't attempt questioning it- you won't succeed. I just want to make sure that the man I love with every fiber of my body is getting what he deserves. Since I haven't already interrogated the daylights out of you or tortured you, consider yourself lucky.. for now-I guess you're an alright girl.

But here are a couple tips for you. Always remember that he doesn't use the term "love" loosely. If he loves you, he puts his all into it and you better make sure to appreciate it. Keep the sex fun and passionate. Keep him pleased, but tease him a little. He LOVES a challenge even when he says he can't resist you. If you have plans at a certain time, tell him its two hours before it really is! Remember that he will put his mom, and his one and only best friend before you-- get on their good side, and respect that. Don't cross your boundaries with him. Pamper him, Nurture him, but don't suffocate him or cling on-- he is a kid at heart, but nonetheless still a man. Lastly, remember to have patience, and take the initiative to key in to his thoughts and emotions. He is all over the place, and he will always be. He thinks too much. He is a perfectionist. BUT if your wise, you'll learn to read him, and know when he needs your emotional support. Remember to love him deeply and remember that he is the BEST thing that will EVER happen to you. Goodluck-- it won't be an easy ride, but it will be well worth it-- he may be the one to hold on to your heart forever. Don't fuck this up.

Sincerely,
The one who lost him