Men's Style Mondays??

My Favorite Man

 I've been crushing on these Men's Clarks Desert Duffle boot. 

They're so unique compared to the classic Clark and they go with most any casual look.

Ted Baker Greco Wing Cap Shoe. Self-explanatory.

Bow Ties: only the best of the best can rock them. Make it happen.

 You can wear it casually.

You can dress it up.

You can prep it up.

Or you can just simply rock it.

 The Casual Man
                                  

              

 The Scruffy Man

 The Preppy Man 

The Working Man

Sexual Chemistry. Sexual Tension

We all agree that the spark ignited between two people is captivating. The sexual tension and air of intimacy is one of the most important aspects of a relationship. Now intimacy is not limited to physicality; it can mean eye contact that plunges inside your soul, it can manifest in the way mere words roll off your tongue. Some people have instant chemistry while others work to bloom long lasting chemistry. The sexual tension is magnetic, consuming and perhaps the most exhilarating thrill one can feel.  Don't take the spark you have with him/her for granted, live it out.

"When you find someone inexplicably attractive, science is playing a trick on you."

"The strongest drug that exists for a human, is another human."

Mondays. Mondaze. My Days.

There's absolutely nothing in the world like getting to a point where you feel completely comfortable with yourself.  Agreed, sometimes the defeat of being rejected, stood-up, or being completely ignored can be heartbreaking; but what we fail to remember when our minds start wandering is that it's not always us.  It is not always something we are lacking. 

Most of us immediately start stalking activity on Insta, persistently follow Facebook posts, and incessantly stare at our phones waiting for that text, to confirm the hope we have in the back of our minds about the situation. When we do finally get tired of all that superficial madness, we start believing that we didn't actually lose something. We eventually wake up with clarity and instead of focusing on the other person and creating self-doubt, we start to recognize our positive attributes.

Usually, the moment we start to feel rejected or not good enough, we fall into old habits; we allow our minds to race, trying to figure out what went wrong. While this is what most of us do automatically-- almost innately, this the hard part. The easy part is being comfortable with ourselves. When we succumb to ourselves, when we stop struggling with ourselves, we allow ourselves to open up to all the greatness we possess. We are able to give the other person the benefit of the doubt and simply accept that their they have a reason for how things turned out or a higher power does. This is our chance to love ourselves; this is actually when we need to love ourselves the most.