Make a FASHION STATEMENT. State who you are.

"Sometimes people who are never alone are the loneliest."

Human existence.. who are we?

I get it.. We're stuck both ways...

If we choose what we THINK is "right" -- we'll FEEL like something went wrong

If we choose what we FEEL is "right" -- we'll THINK like something went wrong

But in the end, what we feel is stronger than we what we think

You see, our minds have a way of playing tricks on us-- and the thing is, we don't even know when it's happening to stop it

So learn to trust your heart more than your mind

and don't try to fix something unbroken.

Be human because that's what you are.

Learn to be comfortable in your own skin, with yourself.

You don't need to be with other people for them to judge whether or not you amount to something.

You amount to the happiness you feel.

You amount the the worth you give yourself when you look in that mirror.

So trust your heart and find happiness within yourself before you look elsewhere. 

"What is done with love, is done well." - Vincent van Gogh

Just DO IT!!

Quote of the Day

"Love is an untamed force. When we try to control it, it destroys us.  When we try to imprison it, it enslaves us. When we try to understand it, it leaves us feeling lost and confused."

Perfection.. or Perfection?

Is she really PERFECT?

Are you really PERFECT?

Do you really want to be PERFECT?

What is PERFECT?

Sexual Chemistry

There will always be that one person
that for some odd reason you keep going back to
Other people don't understand, but neither do you

The one you just can't get enough of each time you're with them
Where Lust Precedes Love
Where Naughty foreplay is permitted and insecurities are forbidden

The kind of chemistry that imprints a smile on your face for days,

Leaves you glowing, and others wondering.

The kind of sexual activity that leaves you panting and begging for more..

The one that makes you tingle inside-- at the simple thought of it

The kind of chemistry that dominates your thoughts and controls you until you get what you want

This sexual chemistry brings the creative side out in you,

making you want to do things you never thought you could.

But this sexual chemistry exists in the light of you and that one person

The one where you look across from you and think "Damm, He/She is so Fuc*ing HOT.. a freakin model!"

The one person that no matter how hard you try to control yourself, you just can't resist.  

Windows foggy.."I'll do it anywhere, I just want you now" kind of sexual chemistry 

Eternal. Irresistible. Sweet... That's The Sexual Chemistry that we all feel at one point or another.. if you find that one odd person you find irresistible. sexy. respectful, that makes you tingle inside.. Don't let them go!

In theory, we all love ourselves. We say we come first-before other's needs, before those horny assholes who just want sex; we repeat all of this to convince ourselves that we really love ourselves. But why don't we act like it?
Why do we have sex with people week after week looking for acceptance from them, when they care nothing more about us than getting off? .. -that's not love for ourselves or our bodies.
Why do we spend hours and hours in front of the TV ingesting fats and oils and always fail to go to the gym when we say we will?..- that's not love for ourselves or our bodies.
Why do we build walls up and keep affection out as if we don't deserve to be adored or treated right?.. - that's not love for ourselves or our heart.
Why do we immerse ourselves in everybody else's problems but forget to listen to our own issues?..- that's not love for ourselves or our mind.
Why do we make time to do favors for everyone else, to help others out, but completely neglect making time for ourselves?.. that's not love.
Why do we stand in front of the mirror in self-hatred and self-doubt?...that's not love for ourselves, our bodies, or our soul.. and furthermore.. why don't we do something about it, if we aren't happy with the way we look?..
Do we really love ourselves? Or do we like to think we do?
Loving yourself does not mean being perfectly happy with every aspect of your existence; it means accepting who you are, and daily, working towards being someone better.

So Remember:
*Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants, and eat less food that is manufactured in plants.
*Say NO when you mean NO!
*Live with the 3 Es... Energy, Enthusiasm, and Empathy.
*Make time to pray.
*Take a 10-30 minute walk daily- and when you walk, smile!
*Don't have negative thoughts of things you cannot control. Instead, invest your energy in the positive present moment.
*Get rid of anything that is not useful, beautiful, or joyful.
*No matter how you feel, get up, dress up, and show up!
*When you awake alive in the morning, thank God for it.
*Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day.
*Look in the mirror and compliment yourself at least once each day.
*Write. Reflect.

Love yourself. Come to peace with who you presently are, and strive for better each day. Wake up. Smile. Find Purpose. Smile. Sleep. Repeat.

Bizarre bits of the week:

Boys:
How are you going to hook up with her, then delete her off Facebook the next day, pretending like you never knew her? - are you that embarrassed of a decision you made and that cowardly to deal with it ?

How are you going to text her 7 times in a row-in the span of two days- not one response.. and STILL ask if she wants you to delete her number- can't you catch a hint? really?!



Friends:
Why are you going to add me on BBM  as if we talk? The sad part is, I'm stuck both ways- If I "Decline" your request you are going to talk shit, as if I did something sinful.  If I "Accept" your request you will just take up an unwanted spot of my contacts list and pry into my personal life.

We live in an age with overwhelming amounts of technology, and an abundance of resources.. why do you call me and ASK ME EVERY SINGLE QUESTION YOU HAVE? I am NOT an encyclopedia, nor am I an almanac, GPS, or a dictionary. It takes two minutes to look in up on Google.. why go out of your way to call me and ask me?!

Quote of the Day

"We are all like dominoes. 

I fall for you, you fall for another...."

Santa Barbara Earth Day Festival. April 17, 2011

"For the dead and the living, we must bear witness."

Holocaust Survivor, Sigi Hart

March of The Living. Auschwitz, Poland

 

Sigi Hart walking the same steps of the death camp he managed to survive

"We must all stand for something, or we'll fall for anything."

Sigi Hart, a grandfather to all.

.. still fighting, battling death, daily.

Rest In Peace Sigi Hart. You will be forever remembered. Your story will live on for years to come. Your spirit will continue to inspire many. 

Death, in forms of Murder. Old Age. Illness. Suicide. Homicide. Nuclear Weapons.  etc..
Death is a strange concept leaving us wondering "Why?" dragging us down a painful path of missed memories.
We all have different beliefs regarding afterlife.. Are we reincarnated? Do our souls live on? Do we just rot in the Earth?
It always comes in various forms of sad news, and never at "the right time"
It is a heart-wrenching feeling. At times it feels surreal.  We never want to believe it, we can't begin to grasp the idea that our loved one is no longer with us.. that they have "passed." We cannot begin to understand, or even fathom the reality of it.
We reminisce annually, but the memories we hold on to aren't enough,
and in between we have countless waking nights, and overwhelming moments in thought of them.
Death. Apart of life. A shared experience by all.
Death. It is beyond us all. Its a strange concept.
The most far-fetched concept hitting so close to home.